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Explore my chats witthoughts on how my terms and conditions for legacyLettersllc . Who owns the letter?

Thought for 36s

You own the letter.
That’s the cleanest, safest way to structure it.

Based on everything we’ve talked about (physical letters only, no digital storage, long-term custody, max 40 years, mail-out only), here’s a simple way to think about your Terms & Conditions and “Who owns the letter?” question.

I’d structure it like this:

1. Before you receive it
   
   • The sender (your customer) owns:
     
     • The physical letter + envelope.
     • The words/content (copyright) in that letter.

1. While Legacy Letters LLC is holding it
   
   • The sender still owns the letter and the content.
   • Legacy Letters LLC is just a custodian/bailee:
     
     • You’re responsible for safeguarding it and mailing it at the instructed time.
     • You do not own the letter or the copyright.
     • You only have a limited permission to store, handle, and mail it.

1. After you mail it
   
   • The recipient owns the physical letter they receive.
   • The sender still usually owns the copyright in the words, unless they explicitly assign it.
   • You (Legacy Letters LLC) have no rights in the physical letter or the content after you’ve mailed it.

1. If delivery fails / term expires
   
   • Until you destroy it, it’s still the sender’s property.
   • Your Terms should say that:
     
     • After reasonable attempts to deliver and/or after the max holding period (e.g., 40 years),
     • The sender authorizes you to securely destroy the letter.
     • Once destroyed, the physical letter no longer exists, but the content rights still belong to the sender.

1. No use in marketing without explicit permission
   
   • By default: you cannot quote, copy, photograph, or publish the letter.
   • If you ever want to use a story or excerpt, you need:
     
     • Separate, written consent from the sender (and maybe recipient, depending on how you use it).
   • Your default T&Cs should say you do not use personal letters for marketing.

From past chats, your model is roughly:

• Physical kit.
• Customer writes a letter, seals it, and sends it to you.
• You don’t store anything digitally.
• You hold the sealed letter up to a maximum of 40 years.
• You research forwarding addresses before mailing.
• No “change later” options (no changing recipient/date once set).
• No walk-in pickup; you mail it out on the chosen date.

This all supports a simple legal story:

“We just hold your letter and mail your letter. We never own it.”

That’s much easier to explain to customers and to a lawyer.

You can put something like this in your FAQ / “How it works” page:

Who owns my letter?
You do.
The letter you write and the words inside it always belong to you. When you send your sealed letter to Legacy Letters LLC, we hold it in physical storage as a custodian only. We do not read, scan, or copy your letter. On your chosen date, we mail your letter to the person you’ve addressed it to. At that point, they own the physical letter they receive — but you still own the words you wrote. We never use your personal letters in our marketing or share them with anyone else.

This is not a substitute for a lawyer, but it gives you strong draft language to bring to one.

1. Customer Ownership.
As between you and Legacy Letters LLC (“Company”), you retain all ownership rights in and to any physical letters, envelopes, and other materials you send to us (collectively, “Letters”), as well as all intellectual property rights in the content of those Letters.
2. Custody Only.
When you send a Letter to Company, you appoint Company as a temporary custodian of that Letter for the sole purposes of (a) physically storing the Letter and (b) mailing the Letter to the recipient you designate on or around the future date you request. Company does not acquire any ownership interest in your Letter or in the content of your Letter.
3. Limited License to Handle and Mail.
You grant Company a limited, revocable license to handle, transport, and store your sealed Letter, and to mail it to the recipient and address you provide, on or around the requested date. This license is strictly limited to providing the Services and does not permit Company to publish, reproduce, photograph, scan, or otherwise copy your Letter or its contents, except as may be required by law.
4. No Reading or Use of Content.
Company does not open sealed Letters in the ordinary course of business and does not read, scan, or store the content of your Letter in digital form, except where we are required to do so by applicable law or court order. Company will not use your Letter or its contents for advertising, marketing, testimonials, or publicity without your separate, written consent.
5. Ownership After Delivery.
Once Company mails your Letter, the physical Letter that is delivered becomes the property of the recipient. This does not transfer any copyright or intellectual property rights in your words, which remain with you, unless you separately assign those rights.
6. Undeliverable Letters and Retention Period.
If Company is unable, after reasonable efforts, to deliver your Letter to the designated recipient and address, or if the maximum storage period set out in these Terms (currently up to 40 years from the date we first receive your Letter) expires, you authorize Company, in its discretion, to securely destroy the Letter. Until destruction, the Letter remains your property; however, you acknowledge and agree that Company has no obligation to store any Letter beyond the maximum storage period or after destruction.
7. No Return of Letters.
The Services are designed for mailing Letters to your chosen recipient in the future. Company does not agree to return Letters to you once received, and you waive any claim to physical return of Letters after they have entered Company’s custody, except where prohibited by law.

What you’ll want to do in the real world:

• Take language like this to a South Carolina business or contracts attorney.
• Have them:
  
  • Check it against SC law.
  • Make sure it matches your final policies (pickup vs no pickup, etc.).
  • Wrap it into a full Terms & Conditions + Privacy Policy.

If you’d like, I can next:

• Draft a full “Terms & Conditions” table of contents for Legacy Letters LLC.
• Or rewrite the above in a shorter, ultra-simple version for regular customers, and a longer legal version for the formal T&Cs.

Draft full

Thought for 23s

Here’s a full Terms & Conditions draft for Legacy Letters LLC that you can copy into your site and hand to a lawyer to finalize.

⚠️ Important: This is a general template, not legal advice. A licensed attorney in your state (South Carolina) should review and customize it before you use it.

Legacy Letters LLC
Last Updated: [fill in date]

Welcome to Legacy Letters LLC (“Legacy Letters,” “we,” “us,” or “our”). These Terms & Conditions (“Terms”) govern your access to and use of our products and services, including our letter storage and future mailing services, our website, and any related materials (collectively, the “Services”).

By purchasing a kit, sending us a letter, or using our Services in any way, you agree to be bound by these Terms. If you do not agree, do not use the Services.

For purposes of these Terms:

• “Customer,” “you,” or “your” means the person who purchases a kit and/or sends a letter to Legacy Letters for storage and future mailing.
• “Letter” means any physical letter, envelope, card, note, or similar tangible item you send to us, including the sealed outer envelope.
• “Services” means our letter storage and future mailing service and any related products, kits, or support we provide.
• “Recipient” means the person and address you designate to receive your Letter on a future date.
• “Storage Period” means the period of time we agree to hold your Letter, up to the maximum described in these Terms.

To use the Services, you represent and warrant that:

1. You are at least 18 years old (or the age of majority in your jurisdiction).
2. You have the legal capacity to enter into these Terms.
3. You are using the Services for lawful, personal purposes.

If you are using the Services on behalf of another person or entity, you represent that you are authorized to bind them to these Terms.

Legacy Letters provides a physical, mail-based service that allows you to:

1. Purchase a physical kit containing materials to write and mail a Letter to us.
2. Write a personal Letter, place it in the provided envelope, and mail it to us.
3. Instruct us, via an instruction card or similar form, to store your sealed Letter and mail it to your chosen Recipient on or around a specified future date, subject to these Terms.

We do not:

• Write or edit your Letter for you.
• Provide legal, financial, or mental health advice.
• Offer digital storage or online viewing of Letters.
• Guarantee any particular emotional, relational, or other outcome from your Letter being delivered.

When you purchase a kit, we provide:

• A mailing envelope and/or mailer to send your Letter to us.
• A letter-writing envelope and specialty paper.
• Postage as described in your specific kit.
• An instruction card where you specify:
  
  • Recipient’s name and mailing address.
  • Desired future mailing date (subject to limits).
  • Any other details requested on the card.

Details may vary by kit and will be described at the time of purchase.

You are responsible for:

• Writing your own Letter.
• Placing it in the provided envelope and sealing it, if applicable.
• Mailing it to the address we provide, using the instructions in your kit.

We are not responsible for Letters that are lost, delayed, or damaged before they arrive at our facility.

Once we receive your Letter:

• We log it into our system and associate it with your account details or archive ID.
• We store the sealed Letter in physical form only.
• We do not routinely open, scan, or digitize your Letter.
• We hold your Letter until the requested mailing date, or until the maximum Storage Period is reached, whichever comes first.

Maximum Storage Period: Unless otherwise stated in writing, we will store Letters for a maximum of forty (40) years from the date we first receive your Letter.

On or around your requested future mailing date, we will:

1. Review the Recipient address you provided and may, at our discretion, make reasonable efforts to check for updated forwarding information.
2. Affix appropriate postage and mail your Letter via standard mail services (e.g., USPS).
3. Send your Letter to the Recipient at the last known address we have on file.

We do not guarantee delivery on the exact calendar date, and we do not provide live tracking or automatic notice to you when mailing occurs, unless explicitly stated for a particular product.

As between you and Legacy Letters:

• You retain all ownership rights in and to any physical Letters you send to us.
• You retain all intellectual property rights (including copyright) in the content of your Letter.

When you send a Letter to Legacy Letters, you appoint us as a temporary custodian of that Letter for the limited purposes of:

1. Physically storing the Letter; and
2. Mailing the Letter to the Recipient you designate on or around the future date you request.

We do not acquire any ownership interest in the Letter or its contents.

You grant Legacy Letters a limited, revocable license to:

• Handle, transport, and store your sealed Letter; and
• Mail it to the Recipient and address you provide, on or around the requested date.

This license is strictly limited to providing the Services and does not permit us to publish, reproduce, photograph, scan, or otherwise copy your Letter or its contents, except as may be required by law.

In the ordinary course of business, we:

• Do not open your sealed Letter.
• Do not read, scan, or store the contents in digital form.
• Do not use your Letter or its contents for advertising, marketing, testimonials, or publicity without your separate, written consent.

We may be required by law, court order, or governmental request to open or produce Letters; in such cases, we will comply with applicable law.

Once we mail your Letter:

• The physical Letter delivered becomes the property of the Recipient.
• You still own the copyright and intellectual property in the words you wrote, unless you have separately assigned those rights.

Legacy Letters has no rights in the physical Letter or its content after mailing, beyond what may be required to comply with legal obligations.

If we are unable, after reasonable efforts, to deliver your Letter (for example, due to incorrect or outdated address, repeated postal returns, or other issues), or if the maximum Storage Period expires:

• We may, at our discretion, securely destroy the Letter.
• Until destruction, the Letter remains your property; however, you acknowledge and agree that:
  
  • We are not obligated to store any Letter beyond the maximum Storage Period; and
  • We are not required to return the Letter to you.

We do not offer in-person pickup of Letters from our facility. All Letters are returned, if at all, by mail only and only where described in these Terms or as required by law.

You are responsible for:

1. Accurate Information: Providing complete and accurate Recipient names, addresses, and your own contact details.
2. Legible Instructions: Completing the instruction card clearly and correctly, including the requested mailing date.
3. Lawful Content: Ensuring your Letter does not contain illegal or prohibited content (see Section 7).
4. Payment: Paying all applicable fees, taxes, and shipping costs for your kit and Services.
5. Updates and Contact: Keeping your email and/or contact details current so we can reach you if necessary.

We are not responsible for delays or non-delivery caused by incorrect, incomplete, or illegible information provided by you.

You agree not to use our Services to send Letters that:

• Contain threats, harassment, or incitement to violence.
• Contain child exploitation or any other illegal content.
• Contain instructions for illegal activity or self-harm.
• Contain materials that violate the privacy or intellectual property rights of others.
• Are part of a scheme to defraud, blackmail, or extort any person.

We reserve the right (but not the obligation) to refuse, hold, or destroy Letters that we reasonably believe violate these Terms or applicable law, and/or to report them to appropriate authorities.

Our Services are designed for you to choose a Recipient and date once, at the time you send your Letter and instructions.

• Changes to Recipient or Date: We do not guarantee the ability to change the Recipient or the scheduled mailing date after we receive your Letter.
• In practice, we may not be able to locate or modify individual Letters on demand, and doing so could compromise the integrity and security of our storage system.

If you need to cancel mailing or request a different outcome, contact us as soon as possible. Any accommodation is at our discretion and may be subject to additional fees.

The price of our kits and Services will be displayed at the point of purchase. Prices are in U.S. dollars unless stated otherwise.

We reserve the right to change prices at any time for future purchases. Price changes will not affect orders already completed.

Payment is due at the time of purchase, using the payment methods we accept. Your order may not be processed until payment is received and cleared.

Because the Service involves preparing and reserving storage and future mailing capacity for your specific Letter, all sales are generally final once your kit has shipped, subject to applicable consumer protection laws.

We may, at our discretion, consider refunds or credits in limited cases, such as:

• A kit arriving damaged or incomplete.
• A kit lost in transit before you receive it.

Refunds, if granted, will typically be limited to the purchase price of the kit and will not include consequential or incidental damages.

We make reasonable efforts to:

• Store Letters in a manner intended to protect against ordinary damage, humidity, and handling wear.
• Use materials and approaches designed for long-term physical preservation.

However, we do not guarantee any specific preservation outcome or condition over time.

Once your Letter is in our custody:

• We are responsible for using reasonable care.
• However, you acknowledge that physical items can be damaged by events beyond our control (e.g., fire, flood, natural disaster, postal mishandling, or other unforeseen events).

To the maximum extent permitted by law, our liability for loss or damage to a Letter is limited as described in Section 13 (Limitation of Liability).

If a Letter is returned to us as undeliverable or cannot be delivered:

• We may attempt to research an updated address using commercially reasonable means and re-mail the Letter.
• We are not obligated to succeed in locating an updated address.
• If, after reasonable efforts, the Letter still cannot be delivered, we may hold it until the end of the Storage Period and then securely destroy it.

We are not required to notify you each time we attempt to mail or re-mail a Letter.

We collect and maintain only the information necessary to:

• Sell and ship your kit.
• Receive, store, and mail your Letter.
• Communicate with you about your order and our Services.

We do not routinely create or store digital copies of your Letters.

We may use your contact information to:

• Send transactional messages (e.g., order confirmations, updates).
• Send limited marketing or service-related communications, which you may be able to opt out of.

We will handle personal data in accordance with our Privacy Policy, which is incorporated by reference into these Terms.

To the fullest extent permitted by law:

1. The Services are provided on an “AS IS” and “AS AVAILABLE” basis.
2. We do not guarantee:
   
   • Delivery on a specific exact date,
   • Successful delivery to any particular Recipient, or
   • Any particular emotional or personal outcome from the Recipient receiving your Letter.

1. We do not provide legal, financial, medical, or psychological advice.

Some jurisdictions do not allow certain disclaimers, so some of the above may not apply to you.

To the maximum extent permitted by law:

1. Indirect Damages Excluded: Legacy Letters will not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages, including lost profits, emotional distress, or loss of opportunity, arising out of or related to the Services or these Terms.
2. Cap on Direct Damages: Our total aggregate liability to you for any claim related to the Services or these Terms will not exceed the greater of:
   
   • The amount you paid to us for the kit and Services relating to the specific Letter at issue, or
   • [e.g., one hundred U.S. dollars (US $100)] (you can adjust this number with your attorney).

These limitations apply even if we have been advised of the possibility of such damages, and even if any limited remedy fails of its essential purpose.

We are not liable for any delay or failure to perform due to causes beyond our reasonable control, including but not limited to:

• Acts of God, natural disasters, fire, flood, or severe weather.
• War, terrorism, civil unrest, or governmental actions.
• Labor disputes, postal strikes, or transportation failures.
• Power outages, system failures, or other infrastructure disruptions.

In such cases, our obligations may be suspended for the duration of the event.

We may update or modify the Services, and we may revise these Terms from time to time. When we do:

• We will update the “Last Updated” date at the top.
• Continued use of the Services after changes are posted constitutes your acceptance of the revised Terms.

If you do not agree with the updated Terms, you should stop using the Services.

These Terms are governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of the State of South Carolina, without regard to its conflict of law rules.

Any dispute, claim, or controversy arising out of or relating to these Terms or the Services will be resolved:

• First, through good-faith negotiation between you and us; and
• If not resolved, through a court of competent jurisdiction located in South Carolina, unless applicable law requires otherwise.

You agree to the personal jurisdiction and venue of such courts.

(If you prefer arbitration, have your attorney replace this section with an arbitration clause.)

• Entire Agreement: These Terms, together with any additional policies referenced herein (such as our Privacy Policy), constitute the entire agreement between you and Legacy Letters regarding the Services.
• Severability: If any provision of these Terms is found to be invalid or unenforceable, the remaining provisions will remain in full force and effect.
• No Waiver: Our failure to enforce any right or provision of these Terms will not be deemed a waiver of such right or provision.
• Assignment: You may not assign or transfer your rights or obligations under these Terms without our prior written consent. We may assign or transfer our rights and obligations under these Terms as part of a business restructuring, sale, or merger.

If you have questions about these Terms or our Services, you may contact us at:

Legacy Letters LLC
[Mailing Address]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number, if applicable]

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